Strange Wedding Tradition Forbids Newlyweds to Use the Bathroom for Three Days and Nights

Weddings in the Indonesian Tidong community have traditions that are truly unique. Perhaps the most adorable of their customs is the one where the groom isn’t allowed to see the bride’s face until he sings her several love songs. The curtain separating the couple is raised only after the musical requirement is met, and then they can see each other on a dais. But then again, not all the Tidong wedding rituals are this sweet. The bride isn’t allowed to leave the confines of her home during the engagement period, and a groom who arrives late to the wedding needs to pay a fine (usually jewelry). But the weirdest of them all is this – the bride and the groom aren’t allowed to use the bathroom for three days after the wedding.

It sounds a lot like the newlywed couple are being punished for an unknown reason. How else would you explain being prohibited from leaving the house, clearing bowels or urinating for three whole days? For those of us who couldn’t go even a couple of hours without using the restroom, this sure does seem like a torturous way to be welcomed into married life. But the custom is very normal and natural for the people of the Tidong tribe, who now inhabit the city of Sandakan, in Sabah, Malaysia. They believe that not practicing the three-day and night ritual would bring terrible luck to the couple – a broken marriage, infidelity, or death of their children at a young age. So the couple is watched over by several people, and allowed only minimal amounts of food and drink. After the three days are up, they are bathed and then permitted to return to normal life.

Photo: Made in Sabah

So what do you think, could you hold it for three days and nights just to get married? I mean, isn’t married life a big enough sacrifice? Do we really need to be subjected to this kind of physiological torture just because we love somebody? We have our share of silly traditions where I’m from, but if this were one of them, I’m pretty sure there would be a lot of bachelors walking around.

via The Star


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Feedback (5 Comments)

  • karl gause Posted on May 27, 2012

    i’m old fashion and a old fashion wedding is just alright whith me

  • LAVENDERLACE Posted on May 27, 2012

    NO WAY….. MARRIAGE IS NOT WORTH ALL THAT

  • Vanessa Caruthers Posted on May 30, 2012

    If You have traveled out of the country there are a lots of different colture other,
    Than what You see in America